THOUGHT OF JIGME ZANGPO: women
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Women and men.


Women has equal right like any other boys or men. We make mistake by thinking they are onlywomen and not men. I am from Bhutan and I saw many educated men misunderstood women as simply women. Forget about other men who has no education when educated men treat a girl or women in negative manner. I said simply women and treat in negative manner. The real meaning for predecessor sentence is that the mind of men are still in male dominant society and treat women as not human. Even an educated women are still has a mindset they are inferior to the men. Indeed they are wrong.

I have seen many men who try to humiliate women. Who they think they are superior to women. Many will think women are dependent to men but which actually is not. Women has equal opportunities like men and can become independent like men. If you are reading this, never have a thought of you are women and have to depend on men.

I have seen a women who try to dominate men. Who try to keep under her comment. Who always let men to dance to the tune of her song. She is actually wrong to do that.

There are men who has no work but only to disturb the peaceful mind of women. Women mind are so soft which can be soften by soft words from imprudent men. Those men think they come to world as a king to the women. And there are women who think men as a king. There need to change a mindset for both men and women.

I have seen many women who are stronger than a men. Stroger than men in thinking. And they are not the women like third paragraph of the article. They have independent mind. They will never get spoiled in the hand of imprudent men.

Dear men and women.

Act like a human. Act like a living being. And respect to all human being. Don’t forget to respect all living being, our parents or friends (animals).

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Ruining of girl’s life by boys.

             
               
Blaming and criticizing people for mistake are with every people. We never think before we blame for their mistake. Should we blame for girl if she is pregnant? We should understand the situation before we blame. We as a boy never understand the pain and worry that the girl have. Boy always cheat girl to gain the pleasure. The common words like” I love you and will marry you” are said by boy to girls. The helpless girl believe the untrue words. Finally, she listen what he say. If girl is pregnant, boys never turn up for her help. Imagine you are in her shoe. Carrying infant in stomach without marrying will bring you a great sorrow. The unending thought like what my parent will say if they know? Society will blame me if they know and I would feel shy if they know are always within her mind.


Now to all my friends, boys: Never think of spoiling and ruining the life of girl by saying untrue words if you have no mind to care her. Treat them as your sister rather than cheating and spoiling her life. Think about our precious life being spoiled by someone. I can’t comment, what we would have in our mind if our life is spoil by someone. Think about the situation of your own in not fulfilling what you targeted. How much you feel sad. It is understand, girl suffer a lot with boy spoiling her life. If we spoil girl, it’s a great shame to us.

If any of girls read this article, I have few words to tell you. Never believe in boy’s words until you trust him. You should trust him not within short period of time. Always try to dig out the true feelings to you before you believe him, otherwise he will ruin your life.